Letter from AEU President, Jennifer Scates
IF and WHEN were friends. Every week they met for lunch. Their conversation usually centered on all the things they were going to achieve. They both had many dreams and they loved to talk about them. One day, WHEN sensed that IF was not in a great mood. Once they placed their order, WHEN questioned IF. "IF, what is wrong with you? You don't seem your usual cheery self!"
IF looked at WHEN and replied, "I'm not sure. I just don't feel like I am making any progress. This last week I saw a course I wanted to take if only I had the time to take it." WHEN knew exactly how IF felt. "Yeah," replied WHEN, "I too saw a course and I am going to register when I get enough money together." WHEN then said, "Well what about that new job you were going to apply for. You were so excited about it last week, did you apply?" IF responded, "If my computer didn't break down last week, I would have applied. But, my computer is not working, so I could not type my resume." WHEN responded "Don't worry about it, IF. When you are ready another job will come through. I have been thinking about looking for another job also, but I will wait and when the weather gets nicer I will look then." WHEN then went on to tell IF about his week, hoping that it would cheer him up a bit.
The man at the next table couldn't help overhear WHEN and IF. They both were talking about when this and if that, finally he couldn't take it anymore. "Excuse me gentlemen," the man said. IF and WHEN both looked at the man and wondered what he wanted. The man continued, "I'm sorry, but I couldn't help hearing your conversation. I think I know how you could solve your problems. "IF smiled and thought, how could a complete stranger know how to solve all of their problems. If only he knew. With the challenges they faced there was no way he could solve their problems! Curious, IF asked the gentleman, "How do you think you can solve our problems?"
The gentleman smiled and said, "You only need listen to yourselves. It reminds me of an old proverb: 'If and When were planted, and Nothing grew.'" He said, "Start counting how many times you use the words 'if' and 'when'. Rather than thinking 'if and when', start doing, take action, stop talking about 'if and when'."
I hope that as we read the story, we stop thinking "Well, when the AEU becomes relevant to me, I'll support it," or "If only the AEU would do x or y or z, then I would support it." I hope that we start thinking "I will do this to create relevance between me and my Society and the AEU" and "I will help the AEU do x or y or z."